i reject your reality and substitute my own

although the title of this blog is somewhat idiotic; i find it appropriate to place on this piece of writing. i am a calvinist christian. so that alone sets me apart from this world. so, although i do not substitute my own reality, i do throw your's out the window, and put in God's, for His is the truth.
what got my thinking on this matter is that i was looking at some pictures of me and my friends at our hign school banquet that we had this past week. and i was just noticing the difference of how we treated out friends. particularly i noticed one of my guy friends and how he treated one of my girl friends; and i compared that to how i treat my best friend who is a girl. although i believe he did nothing morally wrong, i know that i would never allow myself to do what he was. just so that no one gets any wrong ideas, all he did was put his arm around her in a picture, so yeah, nothing really bad. i don't see the reason why we would or, from the world's perspective, should do something like that, even if it is just a picture and we are just friends. to think i could be putting my arm around someone else's future wife, just kinda grosses me out, and makes me not want to do anything like that. sure, in the moment, i might want to, but i just look and think about what i am about to do, and i realize just how stupid and wrong that is. looking at the pictures, i wanted to do that, but thinking about the pictures made me glad that i didn't. it has nothing to do with the girl, or anything like that, cuz i have the bestest friend ever, i just look at the future and i know that i don't want to do that.
if i pursued someone to change for the better with this blog, i rejoice with that, if not, and you who are reading this just blows this off, then i hope that God will give you something to make you wake up to what you are doing, so that you may protect your sisters in christ and so that you may also protect yourselves.